He’s Not Worth Fighting For If He Does These 10 Things

It's so annoying to meet someone who appears to be a nice guy at first but then turns into an asshole a few days later.

We've all had bad boyfriends, after all. I had a lot of them, and I was always forgetting what I had learned from previous relationships. 

Hearing my friends talk about their abusive partners made me consider the characteristics they all share. 

Don't get me wrong: your genuine feelings aren't always enough, so you need to invest time and energy into working on your relationship, but it's also not always worth it.

 

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10 Signs He’s Not Worth Fighting For.

So, here are ten signs that you should stop fighting for the two of you.

1. He makes fun of the things you love.

Have you ever expressed to him how upsetting this is? Perhaps you told him that something (or someone) is very important to you because it makes you happy, and he burst out laughing as if it were the best joke in the world. 

I wouldn't even try with people like this because they aren't open-minded enough to respect everyone's preferences. 

If you told him you wanted to go to the theater and he burst out laughing, simply leave. It's a stupid situation that will happen more often than you'd like.

2. He’s possessive.

Possessive behavior, as you may be aware, is disguised manipulation. It slowly consumes you, and by the time you realize what's happening, it's too late. 

It could start with small jealousy outbursts disguised as a desire to spend more time with you. 

Then it becomes a constant need for attention, and he has taken control of your entire life. 

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You had no idea it was going to happen. Please don't take this as a sign of love because it will eventually devolve into abusive behavior and you may be unable to go out by yourself because he will be holding you hostage! 

3. He is emotionally abusing you.

Even if the abuse was not physical, it is still abuse. Believe me when I say that abuse can hurt you more than a punch. It is not love to tell you that you are worthless and that he could do much better without you. 

Talking about his previous relationships and how much he misses his ex just to make you jealous or upset isn't love. 

The unfortunate reality is that you cannot fix this. If he notices that you've had enough, he may slow down for a while because he doesn't want you to leave. 

But don't be deceived! Abusers do not give up easily. They continue until their victim falls to their knees. 

4. You’re not happy.

You're unhappy and uneasy when you're near him because you know he'll do something that will irritate you soon. 

So you shut yourself away in your room and sob, but it doesn't help because you're lonely—even when you're by his side. 

You are always lonely, and no matter what anyone tells you, it is far worse than being single. 

Perhaps you've put in so much time and effort in your relationship that it's made you unhappy! It's doomed to fail if only one of you is fighting to make it work. Sorry, but it's true. So save your strength—not he's worth it. 

5 Signs Your Partner is Cheating!

Infidelity can be traumatic and is one of the more challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many people are blindsided if and when they find out about a spouse or partner cheating, others may suspect infidelity because of actions that are out of the norm. Take this test to find out if your partner is cheating. 

5. He cheated on you several times.

"Oh, babe, it was just a mistake!" "I can change!" no longer works. 

You've lost count of how many times he's cheated on you. You have no choice but to leave because he will continue to make ridiculous excuses. 

Can a meaningful relationship be rebuilt after someone has cheated on you? No, I don't think so. 

6. He’s a psychopathic liar 

What are the signs of a psychopathic liar? They simply lie about everything! Because psychopathic liars are compulsive creatures who act in a split second, their ultimate lie is "I love you." 

He's a psycho-liar if he tells you he loves you and then goes off to pursue another woman. 

You can't cure it as much as you'd like. This is something you can't change about him. 

7. You are his "second option."

He already has a girlfriend, but he promises to leave her to be with you. Has he abandoned her? 

No. Even if he did, what makes you think he'll change now that he's your boyfriend? 

He can't magically change his personality, as much as you'd like him to. 

He'll cheat on you as well, and why would you want more pain in your life? It's far better to simply walk away from him. 

8. He has no ambitions. 

This has the potential to bring you both to your knees! Think about it if you don't understand what I mean. 

Consider how he spends his days sitting on a couch in your apartment, doing nothing. 

Do you really want to invest your time and energy in someone whose main goal is to watch the next game on TV? 

—and it's possible that's the only reason he gets out of bed in the morning! 

OK, I'm exaggerating a little, but you should want someone who will invest in their personal development and inspire you to be a better person as well. 

5 Signs Your Partner is Cheating!

Infidelity can be traumatic and is one of the more challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many people are blindsided if and when they find out about a spouse or partner cheating, others may suspect infidelity because of actions that are out of the norm. Take this test to find out if your partner is cheating. 

9. He is not available when you need him. 

At home, a sad woman is talking on her phone with cookies on her legs. 

You've been sick and call him to see if he can get you some medication from the pharmacy, but all he does is laugh and tell you that you're too desperate. So, what have you been doing with this jerk for so long, girl? 

Someone in this world will be there for you even if you don't call them. Someone will call you and ask how you are and if you need assistance with anything. 

You should be looking for this type of guy rather than wasting your time and energy on a narcissistic abuser. 

10. You’re the last thing on his mind.

This means that nothing is more important than you and your relationship. Is he canceling your date due to a football game? Or is it because he is unwilling to put forth the effort to leave the house? 

That's exactly what I'm referring to. If he truly desired to be with you, he would cherish every moment with you! 

Finally, if your partner fails to meet your expectations, you don't have to be the only one fighting to make it work! 

Love, trust, honesty, and mutual engagement are the foundations of successful relationships. If you're doing everything on your own, it's time to let go.