16 Warning Signs He’s in Love with Someone Else

When we fall in love with someone, we believe it will last forever. However, you are seeing signs that your partner is falling in love with someone else right now. 

When we choose to be in a serious relationship with someone, we have the feeling that this is the one. You know what I'm talking about, the relationship that will last forever. This is often true, and people stay together until they are old and grey. People, however, are emotional, and we all know that emotions can shift. Listen, if you notice signs that your partner is falling in love with someone else, remember this: no one wants to lose love with their partner. 

When people are in a relationship, this isn't usually the first thing that comes to mind. Being on either side of the coin is unpleasant. Believe me, I've seen both sides. 

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Signs that your partner is in love with someone else

Because you know your partner well, you may have noticed a change in communication or even some suspicious behavior. But, once again, you can't seem to pin down what's going on. You're probably correct if you suspect your partner is falling in love with someone else. It's called intuition for a reason, after all. 

Of course, double-check that you're correct on this one. Here are some tell-tale signs that your partner is in love with someone else. This way, you can get a sense of what's going on and prepare for the upcoming conversation with your partner.

No one ever said love is eternal, especially if you notice these signs that your partner is falling in love with someone else! 

1. You can sense it. 

As I previously stated, you have the impression that something is wrong. I know what you're thinking, but that's not enough. Actually, it's a pretty good sign that something is wrong. Does this imply that your partner is in love with someone? No. But it does imply that something fishy is going on. 

2.They ceased to express their feelings. 

You're used to discussing deep emotions with each other as a couple. However, your partner no longer appears to be as forthcoming with their emotions. They're actually acting cold. If you're left guessing about their emotions, it sounds like they're directed toward someone else. 

3. They are only interested in having sex. 

You used to have deep conversations, go on dates, and kiss in public, but your partner now only wants sex with you. This isn't intimacy; it's simply sex. It is possible to have sex with anyone and not be intimate. Your partner may be attempting to conceal their feelings, but the fact that they avoid intimacy is a dead giveaway. 

4. They become defensive. 

When you ask them about a specific person or question them about specific behavior, they become defensive very quickly. A simple question: what did you do last night? can turn into a huge argument started by them. 

5. They avoid spending time with you. 

You used to go on date nights, but now they're too busy to meet up with you. Of course, everyone requires alone time, but that doesn't mean you should feel alone in this relationship. 

If your partner actively seeks to spend less time with you, it indicates that they are uninterested in spending time with you. Why would that be the case? 

6. They’re suddenly really into a specific hobby. 

Sure, your partner used to go to the running club once a week, but now they go every day of the week. Of course, if they're training for a marathon, that's a different story, but if they've suddenly become obsessed with a hobby, there's a reason for it. 

7. They ghost you. 

I'm so sick of ghosting. To be honest, ghosts are people who are afraid to express their emotions to others. Your partner doesn't usually ignore your texts or respond hours later, but you've noticed a shift. If they're ghosting you, it's because they've moved on to someone else. 

If they don't feel the need to keep you updated on their plans, it's because they're keeping someone else up to date. 

8. There’s no more intimacy. 

You used to cuddle on the couch for hours, talk for hours, hold hands, and have regular sex, but lately, none of that has happened. Something is definitely wrong if your partner has been withdrawing when it comes to giving and receiving affection. Intimacy is what bonds two people, and when it is avoided, something is wrong.

9. They’re doing something new. 

Now, just because someone wants to start working out doesn't mean they're in love with someone else. However, if this sign is accompanied by a couple of the others on this list, it is worth investigating. Your partner started dressing better, working out more, and going out more. Isn't it strange? 

10. You don’t talk as much. 

In relationships, verbal communication is crucial. You used to text and call all the time, but now there isn't as much communication going on. Your partner may have inquired about your day, but they no longer appear to be interested in how your day went or how you're feeling. 

11. They avoid talking about the future. 

You mentioned future plans, but everything has come to a halt. They're no longer interested in labeling the relationship, nor do they want to "stress" about the future. These are merely excuses. It's because they have their sights set on someone else, and you're just a backup plan. 

12. They avoid your family and friends. 

They wouldn't mind seeing your friends and family if they were truly happy to be with you. However, you've noticed that your partner has withdrawn and is avoiding situations where your family and friends may be present. They are distancing themselves from you if they refuse to see your family/friends.

13. They start hiding their phone. 

You used to know their password, and perhaps you still do, but you can't find their phone anywhere. This does not imply that you should search their phone, but it appears that they are more secretive than before. They text you away, walk out of the room when you're on the phone, and other minor but significant changes. 

14. They’re too kind to you. 

They never used to buy you flowers, but now you have more bouquets than you can count in your kitchen. They're doing this because they messed up big time and are feeling bad about it. They're attempting to make amends for not being truthful with you. 

15. Where’s the respect? 

You used to believe that your partner respected you, or so they would tell you. However, they have recently been putting you down, questioning everything you do and taking advantage of your kindness. They don't seem to be as interested in you as they once were. 

16. They compare you to other people. 

You used to be the only person in their sights. It appears that they are now comparing you to others. This is simply them putting you down and confirming that the other person they're interested in is better than you. By the way, it's nonsense. 

These signs that your partner is falling in love with someone else do not necessarily indicate the end of your relationship. You should now sit down with your partner and discuss it.